A little Trick

The only reason you look for a perfect partner, is the notion that he or she will heal your own imperfections and make you whole.
That will never happen.
The only way to deal with your own flaws, is to embrace and accept them and accept yourself as a less than perfect person.
Do this, and you will have the power to love everybody you will ever meet, with no desire to change them!
Of course it is easier, if they are nice too B-)